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3 years agoNew 2022 blog in bio: Intention ≠ Outcome 🤍 I love anyone who supports me and my words, thank you, thank you.
“There have also been many times where I have ignored this voice because my intentions were in the way. I think that's the hardest part of trusting yourself. You have to let go of these intentions and expectations in order to be protected from something that you can’t see yet. You hear that little voice in your head but ignore the message because you hope for the desired outcome; whether it is a person, a job, a new apartment, anything really. Until suddenly, you realize the voice is screaming, screaming for you to make a change. The reality with making a change, however, is that we have to be okay with losing things while simultaneously not losing ourselves. In the words of Mama C, you can give people pieces of yourself but you can’t be upset when you never get that piece back. I have learned this year that the issue with having good intentions is that you expect others to have the same, and when they don’t it feels like you are losing the idea of something that was never meant to be. But I am practicing being so secure within myself, that the love that I give you is yours, because I already have enough for me. “